He was one of 3 brothers. Wim is still alive in Holland. Tobias the father was also alive and on business in London when Holland was invaded. He was supposed to return to Holland on that day. There are 2 Tobias born around the same time. Tobs and Bennie's father was born 17 Jan 1883. He was married twice. His first wife was Saartje Wolff
(b.1882) with whom he had 2 daughter's Dorothea and ELisabeth. Second wife Guurtje de Graaf (b.1898) with whom he had Tobias (1920-1945) who married Eva Skotting (who is still alive), Bennie who died and Wilem who is alive.
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